I try to take the good out of every bad situation. When 2 people are going through something no one else knows about, it is hard to step out of the box and see everything for what it is.
Sometimes you need to do that. You have all of these people looking from the outside in, not knowing what is really going on inside. There is a whirlwind of emotions and things caught up in this cyclone of good things, bad things ect ect. So here the 2 of you are standing in the eye of the cyclone able to see all of this around you, all of this craziness.
Don't let the relationship suffer. Be the bigger person and step out of it and look at the situation for what it really is. Ask yourself if there is something you can do to end all of this madness. Do not invite others into the madness that has already been created. Figure it out for yourself and try to think of a positive way to go about it. Sooner or later the problem will deminish and your cyclone will disappear. Then the once messy and crazy box you were standing it becomes crystal clear.
I have never met a person who genuinely likes conflict. If you, yourself doesn't like it, try to remember most other people don't either..
And as always love and light to everyone.
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