Its December. And in December here it gets cold and it never seems to fail, about this time is when I start to feel like something is missing in my life.  I curled up into a ball last night on the couch and watched a couple movies by myself.  I would like to say that I don't have a man in my life because I am too picky but that isnt whatit is at all.

I just don't want to settle.  I be... Read More

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Stop "shoulding" on yourself! My friend yells that whenever she catches a whiff of someone doing something just because they think they should.

I know what she is saying. I used to "should" on myself quite a bit and I am still guilty of it from time to time.

Rather than focusing on my needs or my dreams, I put my energy into doing what I thought I should do: what was "right" to make my relationships work, please my family, win acceptance from my peers, get into the right college,... Read More

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It is true what they say.  "You must love yourself, before you are able to love another."

If you wake up every day negative, not loving and respecting yourself you are going to find that it rubs off on all of the people in your life.  If you fulfill your days with happy thoughts and things, it will radiate to everyone around you.

What are you doing to make yourself happy?  Can people notice when you are?  Are you happy with where you are in your life?  If... Read More

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I try to take the good out of every bad situation.  When 2 people are going through something no one else knows about, it is hard to step out of the box and see everything for what it is.

Sometimes you need to do that.  You have all of these people looking from the outside in, not knowing what is really going on inside. There is a whirlwind of emotions and things caught up in this cyclone of good things, bad things ect ect.  So here the 2 of you are standing in the eye of... Read More

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